Independent vs dependent

Life can be such that if a child is dependent on his/her parents from o-age 21 (asian standard) or be it of whatever level you can put as a parent. And then, a parent can be dependent on his/her child when the parent reaches a ripe age of about 65 onwards. Some children are kind enough to understand a parent(s) but not all. Have you realised? Were you the one who is very unkind at times? Were you the one neglecting your parent(s) when they are in need of you?
To many, they are very remorse once their parents passed on but during their life time, they couldnt see or they cannot see at all. Have you ever analyse how many years a parent looks after a child compared to a child who is going to look after the parent in their sunset years?
Sames goes to a pupil who is dependent on a teacher when one is relatively young.

What about a friend/colleague who used to depend on you then? Sometimes, it is the circumstances that made one depends on another to "feed" and sometimes, it is the person who likened another to depend on him/her but this dependency is just limited as one can source out to have other ulterior motive. Or else, they wont let such dependency goes on.

In society, life goes on as usual daily, at times, we are so weak or fragile, we are boneless and we start to lean on another to grow up. Dont you ever realised? But once that spirit is growing well, many obstacles are unseen. Sometimes, many people do not even bother to realise it because all these are unseen and cannot be measured. These are mostly the top managerial level of people who are very good in motivating but they forgo their emotional level that they can't see while another can clearly see through. If the words are too forceful, they end up de-motivating in whilst, they will waste their energies.

In whatsoeover way, life has to go on with one's inner spirit to be solidly strong, good faith in whatever endeavours in which one is embarking. One need not necessary to be inclinating on another.

(to be a lone man need not means you are left out of society, perhaps can even work better than many!) :)