Thursday, February 23, 2012

What behold for you today?

As pages or thousand of lines won't finish to describe the above. Some can be writing without ending, but for here, I would like to share when at times, life has been on an uneasy pace, I would like to seek PEACE. Inner peace of whatever I want to do, not you to decide! :)

Sometimes in life, there are a few as if nothing to do or go on their lifes but instead love to stack our beautiful life styles. Do you encounter such? They can be in the form of hacking through the phone lines, internet lines and whatsoever ways when a devil is lurking around. GPRS etc... by their so called beautiful iphone! Well, in this sense can we say Steve Job is a wonderful man? Yes, he was still and thanks for the trackers and hackers who ever are. You give lots of challenges for all of us. Thanks so much... Life is wonderful without those, isn't it? :)

At this Greenwich mean time 1105 hours, I take 1 cup of coffee and later I took a glass of :"misai kuching" that is good for you to reflect over of what life behold for you today!

Hope it balance off my sugar level today with SWEET vs BiTTer!

What about you? Why not take a break off to know more about "misai kuching" before your egoism kills you?


(Do come back for more photos!)

Saturday, February 18, 2012

Life destiny in your own hands

It was the title of the course. It was well said each time we heard of something of this or similiar of that. But no matter how human have planned, it may come out something of what God has proposes. Different people have different life, different family has different ways of life!
One particular statement, the course leader mentioned was when he saw the people in his ex company was envying him of doing his job far faster than others, the colleagues started to complain him. He said to be a good and better employee was also forbidden by others! That was the time, he started to think twice to leave the company for another job.

There are many times, I also feel the same, some people around you started to compliment you, but in a way is in fact envying you, so better be aware of it. At the same time, those who out of nowhere, started to give you directions of what to do next and next, this one can, that one cannot, then, it sounded dangerous at least! We are all children of God, we are armed with a brain, if not better at least also on par to somewhere, so why can't we have an opinion of our own freely and doing things freely?

Now who is behold of your own destiny?............

Friday, February 17, 2012

Belated St. Valentine message

Whenever recalling the first St. Valentine that came across my mind was in one of the verse in "FAR from the Madding Crowd" that once crossed my path in my study. That should be thirty seven years to be exact! It was then came as a "puppy love" at that time!

Well, many had celebrated well in the dinning halls, dancing, drinking or cooling off. But it should be not me there joining as I think St. Valentine is not celebrated in once a year and to show off the true love that one has. May be, I am more of a realistic type of person and the culture, the stream of study that I brought up! I always have a tendency to feel that those who studied SCIENCE streams were not as flowery as those in the ARTS streams who used to be dreamy of their world around them! (But whatsoeover, it is if you dont agree to my writing, well, it is still what I want to write out of my true heart!)

My St. Valentine went to the memory of my belated parents, who had toiled so hard for me and my siblings. My memory went to all those near to me who had passed on and of course not forgetting all those who were once near to me, but far in a sense, they dont live near in my neighbourhood where internet is the only means that they can read my words here.

Thanks for all your wonderful time and support during which we may not be as often as the past or in the future to come. In this belated St. Valentine, pray the good Lord give us all more grace, love, happiness, good health and success.

Roses are red,
Violet are purple in whatsoever way, esp. when we were in our teen years but definitely not at this time of life journey where LIFE IS NOT ALL BEDS OF ROSES..

Monday, February 13, 2012

Independent vs dependent

Life can be such that if a child is dependent on his/her parents from o-age 21 (asian standard) or be it of whatever level you can put as a parent. And then, a parent can be dependent on his/her child when the parent reaches a ripe age of about 65 onwards. Some children are kind enough to understand a parent(s) but not all. Have you realised? Were you the one who is very unkind at times? Were you the one neglecting your parent(s) when they are in need of you?
To many, they are very remorse once their parents passed on but during their life time, they couldnt see or they cannot see at all. Have you ever analyse how many years a parent looks after a child compared to a child who is going to look after the parent in their sunset years?
Sames goes to a pupil who is dependent on a teacher when one is relatively young.

What about a friend/colleague who used to depend on you then? Sometimes, it is the circumstances that made one depends on another to "feed" and sometimes, it is the person who likened another to depend on him/her but this dependency is just limited as one can source out to have other ulterior motive. Or else, they wont let such dependency goes on.

In society, life goes on as usual daily, at times, we are so weak or fragile, we are boneless and we start to lean on another to grow up. Dont you ever realised? But once that spirit is growing well, many obstacles are unseen. Sometimes, many people do not even bother to realise it because all these are unseen and cannot be measured. These are mostly the top managerial level of people who are very good in motivating but they forgo their emotional level that they can't see while another can clearly see through. If the words are too forceful, they end up de-motivating in whilst, they will waste their energies.

In whatsoeover way, life has to go on with one's inner spirit to be solidly strong, good faith in whatever endeavours in which one is embarking. One need not necessary to be inclinating on another.

(to be a lone man need not means you are left out of society, perhaps can even work better than many!) :)

Saturday, February 11, 2012

Knowledge is Power

Who is gaining the most knowledge? There is no definite answer, either you or me! In most times, when we reflected over, those who used to mutter that to gain knowledge more is to learn further. In sub-conscious mind, it is the person who is lacking in certain knowledge, thus being envied in such environment, one will show or express to show, he/she is more knowledgeable!

This can happen in any field of knowledge. Can one master all forms of knowledge and said "ahah, my dear world... I am on top of the world full of knowledge.." in which any dictionary or wikipedia can't give out any special term for such a person yet! But then, why sometimes, some people are so afraid of being left out in certain field and yet only envying others! Really, to me, even a person can "bla.." a thousand times but it is just a dancing puppet in front of me as I am never afraid anyone is competing or being more knowledgeable!

We can be a dumb-bass but it is God who created us in such, we are the shepherd to him not to anyone definitely!

It is interesting on such topic, if we go on to a debate team. But here I just wish to write out something out of my heart, nobody is in hold of our own lives even though we can work a thousand times good, one failure, it is still not good in their eyes, because we are just human beings that will err....... like you and me, isn't it?

I think today, it is still the Pen is still mightier than a sword. As I get through this journey of life, I shall not assasinate a soul with my sharp tongue and if I ever shoot into your heart today, well, ...my apology..

Life is a journey with many junctions, u-turns and so forth. Where is your path of life journey, you definitely know well most than another. It is when a time, a person does not realise one's own mistakes and admit to it, then that is a time, one have to take a good break of one self.

Thus, if I see you transparently, it is you who can hide your weaknesses well and not me being transparent!

Sunday, February 5, 2012

Life journey vs environment

When a child is born into an environment with good learning power, support by different sectors to the discovery of something. It is totally different with a child who is left in the undeveloped area and without any special learning IT or gadgets. Let's see the recent report on the FB discovery by Mark. If he happens to be in another country, dont think he will be what he is today!

Now, does it mean FATE of life is a factor to our life's journey? Very interested to hear your side of story then.

Saturday, February 4, 2012

Past, present & future

We all know that past is something written in history. Of yesterday, yester-years...... But it would give us the memories the one have gone through. Something of bitter, sweet and whatsoever.

Present is what we have. To move on.... of whatever past had been. Can we just brood on and without moving? Life is not such, but it can be hard to move on if one is an extremely emotional type of person. To cover all the bitter-sweet, one have to be very determined, strong willed to get it successfully done. No matter what, life is such, still have to go one without a second look back!
Many may have experienced true life journey but not many have gone through either! For those aged 0-12, 13-18, 19-25, 26-30, 30-35, 36-40 etc.... they all totally hold different idealogies and mindset at different stage of life.

(Instantly, you close your eyes, take a deep breath, now, reflect over, what you were in the above catagories of age? What were you then? What made you liked most at that immediate stages of age? )

Now, please never live with regrets. Life is such. Once, I shared with a priest, life is hard. He told me "in the street, where can you find no body having problems?" That sentence stroke my mind for over years, I kept visualing it, it is getting more true as I moved on with life. Might be, at that time of my age, I never thought life was that hard then, but it gave me so. At that time, I left my most golden mine career that all walks of people used to comment on it. That was the banking life! But not now, now who worked in the bank will have to triply think over, if tomorrow is still their cup of coffee as the management can sack them at any time if their business target is not met!

In amidst of all, we all have feelings... thus our emotional life might or may upset us once in a while. Either by those we have loved so dearly... or those who purposely have hurt us or in other ways and it could either turn out to be hatred or otherwise. Most times, we have think to do something out of unconditional love, but others may think otherwise thus, it will create a tension in between and without clarification, the things happening will look different. In short, does it mean, doing something good has reward in heaven? Only God knows..

Now, let's see the future. Who can see the future? If one can see the future, everyone is a "prophet"!!! O sera-de sera... Myself... getting or rather losing confidence.. as I get older. Thus future is bleak!.. It made someone tears in one stage of life! That incident is the most unforgettable memory to be erased. You can come silently but you wont leave without a heavy heart! For one, I can only live with HOPE....

What about you? Readers, why not share with me over a penny ? :)

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