In a life journey, I have experienced too many friends or so called workers, co-partners or colleagues and etc.
Some are real true people in the beginning of life, but they can be the most poisonous people around you in the end, because they know you well, they start to talk bad and write bad about you.
Some are just real acquaintances and they can end up as real friends. But how many are living in this such a life in your life time? For me, I yet to get a single one!
Does it mean, it lies in me, the ? or them? I read one blog, it even used nature to boils another heat up to use a FERN that looks like a QUESTION MARKS and tried every means to stab another! What a blasphemy?
Let you work your life, I go through mine. It is far with them, far better, isn't it?
Showing posts with label Life / Reflection/Daily life. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Life / Reflection/Daily life. Show all posts
Thursday, July 12, 2012
Tuesday, February 28, 2012
Thursday, February 23, 2012
What behold for you today?
As pages or thousand of lines won't finish to describe the above. Some can be writing without ending, but for here, I would like to share when at times, life has been on an uneasy pace, I would like to seek PEACE. Inner peace of whatever I want to do, not you to decide! :)
Sometimes in life, there are a few as if nothing to do or go on their lifes but instead love to stack our beautiful life styles. Do you encounter such? They can be in the form of hacking through the phone lines, internet lines and whatsoever ways when a devil is lurking around. GPRS etc... by their so called beautiful iphone! Well, in this sense can we say Steve Job is a wonderful man? Yes, he was still and thanks for the trackers and hackers who ever are. You give lots of challenges for all of us. Thanks so much... Life is wonderful without those, isn't it? :)
At this Greenwich mean time 1105 hours, I take 1 cup of coffee and later I took a glass of :"misai kuching" that is good for you to reflect over of what life behold for you today!
Hope it balance off my sugar level today with SWEET vs BiTTer!
What about you? Why not take a break off to know more about "misai kuching" before your egoism kills you?
(Do come back for more photos!)
Sometimes in life, there are a few as if nothing to do or go on their lifes but instead love to stack our beautiful life styles. Do you encounter such? They can be in the form of hacking through the phone lines, internet lines and whatsoever ways when a devil is lurking around. GPRS etc... by their so called beautiful iphone! Well, in this sense can we say Steve Job is a wonderful man? Yes, he was still and thanks for the trackers and hackers who ever are. You give lots of challenges for all of us. Thanks so much... Life is wonderful without those, isn't it? :)
At this Greenwich mean time 1105 hours, I take 1 cup of coffee and later I took a glass of :"misai kuching" that is good for you to reflect over of what life behold for you today!
Hope it balance off my sugar level today with SWEET vs BiTTer!
What about you? Why not take a break off to know more about "misai kuching" before your egoism kills you?
(Do come back for more photos!)
Monday, February 13, 2012
Independent vs dependent
Life can be such that if a child is dependent on his/her parents from o-age 21 (asian standard) or be it of whatever level you can put as a parent. And then, a parent can be dependent on his/her child when the parent reaches a ripe age of about 65 onwards. Some children are kind enough to understand a parent(s) but not all. Have you realised? Were you the one who is very unkind at times? Were you the one neglecting your parent(s) when they are in need of you?
To many, they are very remorse once their parents passed on but during their life time, they couldnt see or they cannot see at all. Have you ever analyse how many years a parent looks after a child compared to a child who is going to look after the parent in their sunset years?
Sames goes to a pupil who is dependent on a teacher when one is relatively young.
What about a friend/colleague who used to depend on you then? Sometimes, it is the circumstances that made one depends on another to "feed" and sometimes, it is the person who likened another to depend on him/her but this dependency is just limited as one can source out to have other ulterior motive. Or else, they wont let such dependency goes on.
In society, life goes on as usual daily, at times, we are so weak or fragile, we are boneless and we start to lean on another to grow up. Dont you ever realised? But once that spirit is growing well, many obstacles are unseen. Sometimes, many people do not even bother to realise it because all these are unseen and cannot be measured. These are mostly the top managerial level of people who are very good in motivating but they forgo their emotional level that they can't see while another can clearly see through. If the words are too forceful, they end up de-motivating in whilst, they will waste their energies.
In whatsoeover way, life has to go on with one's inner spirit to be solidly strong, good faith in whatever endeavours in which one is embarking. One need not necessary to be inclinating on another.
(to be a lone man need not means you are left out of society, perhaps can even work better than many!) :)
To many, they are very remorse once their parents passed on but during their life time, they couldnt see or they cannot see at all. Have you ever analyse how many years a parent looks after a child compared to a child who is going to look after the parent in their sunset years?
Sames goes to a pupil who is dependent on a teacher when one is relatively young.
What about a friend/colleague who used to depend on you then? Sometimes, it is the circumstances that made one depends on another to "feed" and sometimes, it is the person who likened another to depend on him/her but this dependency is just limited as one can source out to have other ulterior motive. Or else, they wont let such dependency goes on.
In society, life goes on as usual daily, at times, we are so weak or fragile, we are boneless and we start to lean on another to grow up. Dont you ever realised? But once that spirit is growing well, many obstacles are unseen. Sometimes, many people do not even bother to realise it because all these are unseen and cannot be measured. These are mostly the top managerial level of people who are very good in motivating but they forgo their emotional level that they can't see while another can clearly see through. If the words are too forceful, they end up de-motivating in whilst, they will waste their energies.
In whatsoeover way, life has to go on with one's inner spirit to be solidly strong, good faith in whatever endeavours in which one is embarking. One need not necessary to be inclinating on another.
(to be a lone man need not means you are left out of society, perhaps can even work better than many!) :)
Saturday, February 4, 2012
Past, present & future
We all know that past is something written in history. Of yesterday, yester-years...... But it would give us the memories the one have gone through. Something of bitter, sweet and whatsoever.
Present is what we have. To move on.... of whatever past had been. Can we just brood on and without moving? Life is not such, but it can be hard to move on if one is an extremely emotional type of person. To cover all the bitter-sweet, one have to be very determined, strong willed to get it successfully done. No matter what, life is such, still have to go one without a second look back!
Many may have experienced true life journey but not many have gone through either! For those aged 0-12, 13-18, 19-25, 26-30, 30-35, 36-40 etc.... they all totally hold different idealogies and mindset at different stage of life.
(Instantly, you close your eyes, take a deep breath, now, reflect over, what you were in the above catagories of age? What were you then? What made you liked most at that immediate stages of age? )
Now, please never live with regrets. Life is such. Once, I shared with a priest, life is hard. He told me "in the street, where can you find no body having problems?" That sentence stroke my mind for over years, I kept visualing it, it is getting more true as I moved on with life. Might be, at that time of my age, I never thought life was that hard then, but it gave me so. At that time, I left my most golden mine career that all walks of people used to comment on it. That was the banking life! But not now, now who worked in the bank will have to triply think over, if tomorrow is still their cup of coffee as the management can sack them at any time if their business target is not met!
In amidst of all, we all have feelings... thus our emotional life might or may upset us once in a while. Either by those we have loved so dearly... or those who purposely have hurt us or in other ways and it could either turn out to be hatred or otherwise. Most times, we have think to do something out of unconditional love, but others may think otherwise thus, it will create a tension in between and without clarification, the things happening will look different. In short, does it mean, doing something good has reward in heaven? Only God knows..
Now, let's see the future. Who can see the future? If one can see the future, everyone is a "prophet"!!! O sera-de sera... Myself... getting or rather losing confidence.. as I get older. Thus future is bleak!.. It made someone tears in one stage of life! That incident is the most unforgettable memory to be erased. You can come silently but you wont leave without a heavy heart! For one, I can only live with HOPE....
What about you? Readers, why not share with me over a penny ? :)
5:50am
Present is what we have. To move on.... of whatever past had been. Can we just brood on and without moving? Life is not such, but it can be hard to move on if one is an extremely emotional type of person. To cover all the bitter-sweet, one have to be very determined, strong willed to get it successfully done. No matter what, life is such, still have to go one without a second look back!
Many may have experienced true life journey but not many have gone through either! For those aged 0-12, 13-18, 19-25, 26-30, 30-35, 36-40 etc.... they all totally hold different idealogies and mindset at different stage of life.
(Instantly, you close your eyes, take a deep breath, now, reflect over, what you were in the above catagories of age? What were you then? What made you liked most at that immediate stages of age? )
Now, please never live with regrets. Life is such. Once, I shared with a priest, life is hard. He told me "in the street, where can you find no body having problems?" That sentence stroke my mind for over years, I kept visualing it, it is getting more true as I moved on with life. Might be, at that time of my age, I never thought life was that hard then, but it gave me so. At that time, I left my most golden mine career that all walks of people used to comment on it. That was the banking life! But not now, now who worked in the bank will have to triply think over, if tomorrow is still their cup of coffee as the management can sack them at any time if their business target is not met!
In amidst of all, we all have feelings... thus our emotional life might or may upset us once in a while. Either by those we have loved so dearly... or those who purposely have hurt us or in other ways and it could either turn out to be hatred or otherwise. Most times, we have think to do something out of unconditional love, but others may think otherwise thus, it will create a tension in between and without clarification, the things happening will look different. In short, does it mean, doing something good has reward in heaven? Only God knows..
Now, let's see the future. Who can see the future? If one can see the future, everyone is a "prophet"!!! O sera-de sera... Myself... getting or rather losing confidence.. as I get older. Thus future is bleak!.. It made someone tears in one stage of life! That incident is the most unforgettable memory to be erased. You can come silently but you wont leave without a heavy heart! For one, I can only live with HOPE....
What about you? Readers, why not share with me over a penny ? :)
5:50am
Saturday, January 28, 2012
Recollections
How many of us have sit down to recollect ourselves? Many a while, each will start to point the mistakes of another while not reflecting on oneself! Don't you agree? In this festive season, one should be humbled in the name of God the almighty, what you have done over the years and come to recollect of what one is going to embark in the coming days.
It may sound holistic but it is only too true that if one is not recounting of oneself, the judgement is there to come! At times, how many of us are grateful or appreciating of another's job?
Gratitude? Have you been grateful of what you have been when you were much younger, how you are being grown up!
In another sense or tone, sometimes, some people are just not forgiving enough that they will repeat the history and yet they know that is grumbling already but yet they live in such. Of course, as a listener, one will pull an ear to hear but one will never adheed to such "grumbles"?
In the short concluding statement, one would say, when we get older, we try to speak the less the better, the better world to live in and at the same time, some people like to be authorative and it shows how accentric one is then.
Well... each of us, live our lives in a far better way than just grumbling and it will never make things happen!
It may sound holistic but it is only too true that if one is not recounting of oneself, the judgement is there to come! At times, how many of us are grateful or appreciating of another's job?
Gratitude? Have you been grateful of what you have been when you were much younger, how you are being grown up!
In another sense or tone, sometimes, some people are just not forgiving enough that they will repeat the history and yet they know that is grumbling already but yet they live in such. Of course, as a listener, one will pull an ear to hear but one will never adheed to such "grumbles"?
In the short concluding statement, one would say, when we get older, we try to speak the less the better, the better world to live in and at the same time, some people like to be authorative and it shows how accentric one is then.
Well... each of us, live our lives in a far better way than just grumbling and it will never make things happen!
Wednesday, January 25, 2012
Community
Of late, likened to study different communities, cultures and living. When I visited the mountains, I see so many natives living in the mountains in decades if not in century already. They didnt open up or rather developed in their neighbourhood, but they are happy as they are. What made them as what they are? (You may say, hey! man, they are so contented!) But they can live a day without fail. They are not starving, they own proper homes, cars, clothings to live on day by day.
Comparatively, those living in the urbans, I can see how greed, materialism changed another to a uncontented person. Many are rushing out in the early morn, be it their day of work, real life or dark life as I love to put it. Some are so greedy that they do robberies, thieving works etc. In which, at this hour (4am) or even earlier, (should I say, damn it in this NY time) they are already working round the clock to hack people's homes in the wake of the hours where everyone should be in the slumberland. Including me, but the barking of neighbour's dog made me realised, I better do something here to make those lurkers at bay! This is the second consecutive nights.
At times, I would wonder, why those people cannot work hard decently in the day, be a dish washer, a street sweeper, a cleaner of anything, selling anything out of the garden (if they ever tilted.. but do they?) In my neighbourhood of about 50 - 60 houses, not a single house, I can see as many fruit trees/plants/flowers like my own garden! I really cannot believe it myself.
But over the CNY celebrations, you can heard much "bomps..." and fire crackers banging, well, deep into it, do they have decent life styles, that I have no comment! Indeed, to me, playing firecrackers is not only illegal, it pollutes the air, waste money not an idea to me for decades! Moreover, if anyone is doing work like the firecrackers, it only changes to paper only!
Thus, in my tutoring time, relaxing over with my students, sharing about basics in life. To have it, every one must learn to plant some trees, flowers, vegetables at home to realise life is not just studying alone. (To do this, I taught them how to plant and we compete to see whose seeds will grow to bigger vegetables, or plants.)
In years to come, what community can do better ? Those who read bibles more often, it is undeniable. It is a book, nothing can be learnt else where. But to master the bible and put to life, is the key to any everlasting community.
Comparatively, those living in the urbans, I can see how greed, materialism changed another to a uncontented person. Many are rushing out in the early morn, be it their day of work, real life or dark life as I love to put it. Some are so greedy that they do robberies, thieving works etc. In which, at this hour (4am) or even earlier, (should I say, damn it in this NY time) they are already working round the clock to hack people's homes in the wake of the hours where everyone should be in the slumberland. Including me, but the barking of neighbour's dog made me realised, I better do something here to make those lurkers at bay! This is the second consecutive nights.
At times, I would wonder, why those people cannot work hard decently in the day, be a dish washer, a street sweeper, a cleaner of anything, selling anything out of the garden (if they ever tilted.. but do they?) In my neighbourhood of about 50 - 60 houses, not a single house, I can see as many fruit trees/plants/flowers like my own garden! I really cannot believe it myself.
But over the CNY celebrations, you can heard much "bomps..." and fire crackers banging, well, deep into it, do they have decent life styles, that I have no comment! Indeed, to me, playing firecrackers is not only illegal, it pollutes the air, waste money not an idea to me for decades! Moreover, if anyone is doing work like the firecrackers, it only changes to paper only!
Thus, in my tutoring time, relaxing over with my students, sharing about basics in life. To have it, every one must learn to plant some trees, flowers, vegetables at home to realise life is not just studying alone. (To do this, I taught them how to plant and we compete to see whose seeds will grow to bigger vegetables, or plants.)
In years to come, what community can do better ? Those who read bibles more often, it is undeniable. It is a book, nothing can be learnt else where. But to master the bible and put to life, is the key to any everlasting community.
Human beings vs human beings
In this new year 2012, studying more of this is not only interesting, it gave lots of insights. Here and there, we come to know someone is close to another, another one is not close to their next of kins, what more to say?
The blood group, the genes, the different family tree and ways of life/growing up, food one needs to take all accounted to any human being, how one is moulded into the society.
Once, my immediate superior told me, the hardest thing to handle in work is to handle "human beings". That question lies in my mind for long. Indeed, it is very difficult. One day, while I sent some new year tangerine oranges to a convent, I had a short conversation with a sister. She told me, it is never easy to work with the adults. I quickly agreed with her. Deep inside me, I thank God for whatever he gives me, I used to deal with young children. It is not that I can easily manipulate them but rather young children like young bamboo shoots, they can be taught, easily bentable, not until at a later age. But on the other hand, I dealt with many adults too. Some are older, some are much younger than my age. Of course, there is one or two always trying to expect another to be like them. Well.. then comes my thinking, can't I be what I am?
What more to say, a happy visitation can end up as an unhappy one, have you encountered? It is time for people to recollect what are we in this world? Who am I?
To sum up this, we should be happy of what we are, who I am and not who so and so is? Who so and so is better than I?
God gives everyone fairly in this world, it all depends on how one grasp the opportunity to live the journey. It is never how smart you are, how much you earn a year. It is rather how much you have SAVED. To live the past with no regrets, to live the future with HOPE, to live the present with help around those and lastly to have good FAITH in you.
p/s "There is no end of learning." This was written in my Year 6's autograph by my assistant headmaster, the late Lee in year 1971
The blood group, the genes, the different family tree and ways of life/growing up, food one needs to take all accounted to any human being, how one is moulded into the society.
Once, my immediate superior told me, the hardest thing to handle in work is to handle "human beings". That question lies in my mind for long. Indeed, it is very difficult. One day, while I sent some new year tangerine oranges to a convent, I had a short conversation with a sister. She told me, it is never easy to work with the adults. I quickly agreed with her. Deep inside me, I thank God for whatever he gives me, I used to deal with young children. It is not that I can easily manipulate them but rather young children like young bamboo shoots, they can be taught, easily bentable, not until at a later age. But on the other hand, I dealt with many adults too. Some are older, some are much younger than my age. Of course, there is one or two always trying to expect another to be like them. Well.. then comes my thinking, can't I be what I am?
What more to say, a happy visitation can end up as an unhappy one, have you encountered? It is time for people to recollect what are we in this world? Who am I?
To sum up this, we should be happy of what we are, who I am and not who so and so is? Who so and so is better than I?
God gives everyone fairly in this world, it all depends on how one grasp the opportunity to live the journey. It is never how smart you are, how much you earn a year. It is rather how much you have SAVED. To live the past with no regrets, to live the future with HOPE, to live the present with help around those and lastly to have good FAITH in you.
p/s "There is no end of learning." This was written in my Year 6's autograph by my assistant headmaster, the late Lee in year 1971
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